I treasure the memories of our long friendship and how, when I was unmarried and pregnant with my (now) 33 year old son, the engineer, whom I adore and thank G_d I never terminated, Charmaine was there for me. (Your) Mom sent me a card with a huge egg and a tiny chicken sitting on it before it hatched which said something like "Sit on it or hatch it -- but make a decision" I later used that picture on Matt's birth announcement. -- from Francine Miller